The Kitchen is Closed huh???

Soooo... The Kitchen is Closed Huh??? The new phenomenon of women in their late 20s and up is "No Ring No Sex"!!! With the likes of Pinky Promise groups http://www.pinkypromisemovement.com ) growing rapidly, women are supporting each other and promising to save their bodies for marriage.  "Born-Again Virgins" are popping up everywhere.  Demanding that men step up their games and come correct.  Women are reestablishing themselves and demanding more.  Examples of Mr. and Mrs. Lindsey, Meagan Good and her (ever so handsome) Christan beau Devon Franklin, and engaged (distinguished and handsome) Author of  "Contemporary Gentleman" Enitan Bereola II (www.bereolaesque-online.com ) are giving women hope.  Here lies respectful, successful, God-fearing men who are attractive and are not only willing to wait to have sex but even more astonishing demanding to wait until marriage.  These men are courting their mates and treating them with love and respect during the process. Um... Wait what's the catch??? Hmm... Maybe they are on to something. Maybe there's something to this "wait until marriage" thing after all.  Forcing us to actually deal with issues in a relationship and not resort to sex just to create intimacy or put a band-aid on problems you're having.  Make-up sex is not a cure but most often a symptom of an insecure relationship built on unstable ground.  The theory of sex making you closer or you don't know someone until you sleep with them is proving to be erroneous.  You don't need to sleep with someone to get to know them better... you get to knowing them better by spending time with them, knowing their likes and dislikes, how to encourage them, and support them.  Marilyn Monroe put it best "“The real lover is the man who can thrill you by kissing your forehead or smiling into your eyes or just staring into space.”

XOXO

The Hunter :)