Classy this is Sexy (so very nice to meet your)... Sexy this isClassy...(pleased I'm sure)

So while getting ready for the Literacy Gala at the Charles H Wright Museum, I had a hard decision to make.  Do I wear the totally Classy dress w/ a little big of sexy or the Sexy Dress w/ a little bit of class?   To be clear, just because I categorize a dress as sexy doesn't negate that the dress is classy, it may just have a little more umph in it and vice versa.  I strive to be a well rounded individual including in my clothing selection.  Sooooo the question is... When single and wanting to be "noticed" by a potential mate do you dress sexy before you get the mate and tone our looks down, OR dress the part you want and spice it up after??? Our world is so black or white... So this or than when in reality there are often "50 shades of Gray".   I consistently display mostly class with a flair of sexy in most of my outfits... Usually a loose short dress or a blousy partially sheer top makes up the majority of my closet, however I was drawn to this Kim Kardashian'eque dress by Napel in Kelly green.  My eyes glittered in delight.  Being the Gemini that I am I was destined to continue looking because I'm ALWAYS looking for the next best thing I stumbled on a cute short shift dress with a magenta lace overlay and a teal slip. The color combinations had me at Hello and the fit was perfect.  This was a MAJOR decision for me... I chose the Kelly Green Dress.  I think it was the wrong selection personally.  That delicate balancing act as we get older and want to be taken "serious" while being being viewed as light hearted and carefree is sometimes overwhelming.  I'm learning and growing with every step.  Next time the class will win and I'll try to keep Ms. Sexy tamed until she's Mrs. Sexy or at least on a fun filled vacay (wink).  Until next time!

XOXO

The Hunter